Wednesday, September 1, 2010

Before I write this post I shall say 1 word wat does it mean
in case some of u don knw.


CL = Confinement Lady


Here goes my post.


Some of you if u have my fb u will knw that I'm urgently looking for a CL.
For my confinement in November this year.
I scared I cant find as I search through forums and ppl say by the 3rd month u pregnant.
you have to book the CL for your labour le.
So I search through the forums and got quite alots of number.
So use Hubby's phone to call those msia number.
True enough, those who r mention good in the forum r book in Nov.
Till I call all, there is only 3 available.
Pricing from 1.8K-1.9K


1st one - Auntie Han


She don take money and buy food.
She will go and buy food if we bring her to supermarket
and buy 1wks food back.
She say she nv take deposit from me, we based on trust.


~ Discussion with Hubby ~


Abit troublesome for us as my mum fridge got limited space
and vegetables spoils easily.


2nd one


She nd to take a deposit first.
As I done my homework on net.
There is a few case tt CL wan to take deposit first and nv turn up
the day and cant contact them at all.
She nd to slp in the day time.


~ Discussion with Hubby ~


She nd to slp it's ok so long she do finished wat's she nd to do.
But Hubby don agree on the deposit.
As she wan as to bank in RM500 for her.
As Hubby is a Malaysian, he knws wat those CL thinking.
They r clever n think for themselves.
Hubby says if they r tt good from wat the net says,
they no nd to take deposit as if they do well ppl will pay them.
We scared they run away they scare we run away.


3rd one


She nd us to fetch her from Custom to our house on the 1st day
and send her bk to Custom on the lasy day.


~ Discussion with Hubby ~


That is abit problem for us as we don't have car.


So we choose the 1st one.
Confirmed with her wat she nds to do all.
She is ok with the things we say.
I thought finally found one.
So I throw the list of CL tt I source from the net.
But few days later. She cal me and say she cant make it.
As she had one in early November.
The moment I heard this, I think shit I got to source again.
And since I confirmed with u, u got to check ur book
whether any one book u.
Den she say she intro one of the "Jie Mei' to me.
See if I ok and the auntie ok anot.


So she told me the auntie is coming to Singapore to play.
As visit her friends all. So the auntie say she will come to visit me
and we meet up and talk.
I say ok.


She cal n ask for direction the day she reached.
She say she coming later. 12plus she called.
And aft awhile started to rain. So i thought she will b late since raining.
But I wait till 1plus-2 den she come.
And I slp with my boy as I tired le and don knw wat time she coming.
Den she called me say no1 as home and I ask her to come up again
I open the door for her.


So we talk and discussed. Aft everything I nd to ask.
Lastly I ask her how old is she.
She say 60+ but she sounds reclutant to say.
She still say Auntie Han ask her to take deposit from me.
Listen liaoz damm angry she herself comfirmed with me say
nv take deposit we based on trust den ask her fren to take from me.
Den I say ok I comfirmed with her as I scare I cant find anyone last min.


~ My impression on her ~ Auntie Mei Feng


She talks abit loud as we sit in the living room and my boy is slping beside us.
(She jus like my mil babies slping they can talk so loud)
She say she don wan this amt of money as she seldom do confinement.
Her children are all grown up le.
And I see her my mum look more younger den her.
By the way, my mum also 60+
Though I comfirmed with her, I think for the whole night.
Scare she cant cope wit the housework. (washing of clothes)
As Hubby's clothes is heavy, for me already is heavy.
For her I scare she cannt do it.
And she also say if she cant do it, I nd to help her.
As she got to look aft Kayden also.
I think le nt really ok. As I how to take care Kayden as I under confinement.


So discussed with Hubby.
And we decided to cal the 3rd one.
When Hubby cal her, he say she sing K.
Though she nd some1 to fetch her, Hubby say e most he take leave to fetch her.
Wanna comfirm with her bt keep cant reach her.
Finally when I can reach her, everything settled comfirmed.
Guess wat she say?!
She nd to take deposit RM500.
Hubby say forget it.
I told her abt the 1st one and say some ppl take le nv turn up.
She say previous one ppl also bank in for her.
the person hubby still drive car n fetch her from airport.


~Impression on her ~


Hubby say they think we Singaporean alot of money.
Chop us like nobody.


So ended up I told Hubby hire sister in law de mil.
she also is a CL bt she charges higher and specific on the ang bao amt.
Bt she is good as she say her price is higher bt she do everythings for us.
I don nd to do anything. She give us discount also.
Coz I don wan to find CL le. Stupid all cannt if nt nd deposit.
Hubby don like it, I sort of agreed also.


So aft comfirming with sister in law de mil.
the next day I call Auntie Han the 1st one and told her
I don wan Auntie Meifeng le.
Scare she cant cope with the housework washing clothes.
Den she say ok nth much.


Den My phone I set playing game sound to low
and sometime ppl cal I cant hear my phone due to the game sound setting also.


This is the most angry part.


Auntie Meifeng call me twice due to I nv hear it ring
den the 3rd time she cal me I pick up.
And she say y I nv pick up her cal.
I told her I nv heard it ring den she say to say n scold.
Say I confirmed with her le den say don wan
and she say sure I don wan coz she wan to comfirm with other ppl.
make her use her money n time as she cal using msia number.
time I guess is she come donw to my place.
Bt I didnt ask her to come, she herself wan to come.
Den she say coz of me she reject one of them who cal her.
Den she say she should take deposit from me.
She herself say she don nd this money she nv everything do.
She choose also. She sometime wan to play with frenz.


KNS! Nw I agreed with Hubby, They r clever.
Few hundreds dollars also wan to eat us.
She say you like tt den ok. U good lor something like tt.
I told her scare she cant do the housework.
She say she last time help ppl 10+ storey also like tt.
How I knw ppl clothes how much compare to ours.
Somemore she herself say don nd this amt of money de ma.
Nw say till I make her lose money like tt.


If anyone hiring CL, Hope u guys don hired till her.
Infront talk very good when things happened turn face.
I talk to her nicely. She scold me.
I nv scold n tel her, her fren Auntie Han also few days also say cannt
when she comfirmed with me le.


So my CL will b sister in law de mil.
Hope when she come everything will b ok.
As she is Cantonese say as me & mum so guess her cooking will suit us.
Coz we Cantonese eat every meal must have soup.
somemore she is ok to slp anywhere.


Blog till here.
Going to make Kayden slp liaoz.